You can't make Everyone Like You as a Person!
You can't make people be nice to you just because you are nice.
I am a nice person, yeah I am just gonna put it right there. Since I was little and the parental guidance I have got I have always been nice to everyone I meet. Friends who know me quite well say "You are one of the nicest person I have met" and I have got "You are a good person Arpit" alot. And it feels great you know, to get such compliments by other people. In schools it was taught that being nice is the best thing you can be but this world doesn't really follows this. I hate alot of people. Like legit hate them for what they are and I feel glad that I am not like them and I don't even want to be like them ever, people like me are getting rarer in this world. So as I said that I am nice to everyone and I think they would be nice with me too, it does't always work like this. I mean there are legit some people who said to me that being nice sucks and basically that's why you suck.
In this world if you try to help and trust someone, there's a higher chance that you will regret that later because they will just use you. Every person that I meet in real life I try to make them like me as a person, some do but other just think you are a piece of s*it. That's one of the reasons I just decided to be myself and don't really care about the environment around me. Last year when I was doing Hotel management and was experiencing college life for the first time I thought I would just talk to everyone and be really nice to them. Some people who were nice responded better over time but others just made fun of me. I used to smile alot and when I am talking I was the nicest person. But because of the bad experiences I decided to change myself in this new course, I still smile and talk to people but not to everyone. No matter how nice you are and try to be with people, you will still feel bad because of other people. And it's funny that some people hate you for being nice. It's like I am experiencing the real life for the first time since I joined college, there are all types of people there but many people won't do the same for you like you do for them. I have experienced this alot. I am quite sensitive as a person no shame in telling that so when I don't get what I deserve it feels really bad. I don't even know who is my true friend now, yeah some of them are really nice from school days but the people I am meeting now since I joined college, I don't know who is gonna be with me as time passes. I have no problem with haters because I really want success and when you get it, people really start hating you more.
I really hate alot of people inside even though I don't be like that when they are with me, I know they all will change and only a few will actually be with you over time.
and sometimes I think other people may be thinking the same about me, I do have ego issues but I always be the nicest version of me when I am interacting with them.
I am a nice person, yeah I am just gonna put it right there. Since I was little and the parental guidance I have got I have always been nice to everyone I meet. Friends who know me quite well say "You are one of the nicest person I have met" and I have got "You are a good person Arpit" alot. And it feels great you know, to get such compliments by other people. In schools it was taught that being nice is the best thing you can be but this world doesn't really follows this. I hate alot of people. Like legit hate them for what they are and I feel glad that I am not like them and I don't even want to be like them ever, people like me are getting rarer in this world. So as I said that I am nice to everyone and I think they would be nice with me too, it does't always work like this. I mean there are legit some people who said to me that being nice sucks and basically that's why you suck.
In this world if you try to help and trust someone, there's a higher chance that you will regret that later because they will just use you. Every person that I meet in real life I try to make them like me as a person, some do but other just think you are a piece of s*it. That's one of the reasons I just decided to be myself and don't really care about the environment around me. Last year when I was doing Hotel management and was experiencing college life for the first time I thought I would just talk to everyone and be really nice to them. Some people who were nice responded better over time but others just made fun of me. I used to smile alot and when I am talking I was the nicest person. But because of the bad experiences I decided to change myself in this new course, I still smile and talk to people but not to everyone. No matter how nice you are and try to be with people, you will still feel bad because of other people. And it's funny that some people hate you for being nice. It's like I am experiencing the real life for the first time since I joined college, there are all types of people there but many people won't do the same for you like you do for them. I have experienced this alot. I am quite sensitive as a person no shame in telling that so when I don't get what I deserve it feels really bad. I don't even know who is my true friend now, yeah some of them are really nice from school days but the people I am meeting now since I joined college, I don't know who is gonna be with me as time passes. I have no problem with haters because I really want success and when you get it, people really start hating you more.
I really hate alot of people inside even though I don't be like that when they are with me, I know they all will change and only a few will actually be with you over time.
and sometimes I think other people may be thinking the same about me, I do have ego issues but I always be the nicest version of me when I am interacting with them.
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