Love, Lust, Infatuation & More - My Views
15 February 2019 9:15PM: Yesterday was Valentines Day and well today I am at home getting time and my laptop to write another blog post. Today I wanted to give my thoughts on this thing or feeling called love and such similar feelings. Everyone has their own meaning of love or they just say they feel it. You probably have come across people saying that you fall in love only once in your lifetime or seen in movies, read but yeah I am sure you have heard of it lol. What do I think of this? Well I don't really agree with this. There's this another term called crush which is often used when a person gets attracted towards other persons and develops some feelings.
Everyone has crushes in their lifetime and talking about me, I've had dozen of crushes in my 19 years of life. I will have to count them haha. Just some days ago I came across another term called infatuation which people say starts at starting of a relationship when the person are really attached to each other. I am not writing this to define these terms so I am not gonna go deep into definitions. What I think of love is that you can fall in love with anyone and anything and it's a roller coaster of different emotions and feelings. You get happy, you get sad, you get heartbreaks, you make memories, you just go through a lot of things. Talking about lust, that's something different and is used when you are attached to someone's physical body and have physical desires. A boy like me, oh boy I have a lot of lust inside me lol but I've had multiple crushes in my lifetime, some lasted for days and some for months. I feel I have some kind of feeling for girls that I had crush on 4-5 years ago and still feel them. I don't really know how all these feeling things really work but this is just amazing. Sometimes it really blows my mind on how our body and mind reacts to such feelings. You feel like you love someone or have crush on someone, you think about them all the time and create romantic conversations and incidents inside your head. You smile inside yourself thinking about your own love fantasies for that person, even the most minor things related to them amazes you and makes you love them more but jealousy also comes with it and you also get sad and angry when something happens that you don't like with that person like when someone comes in the way.
Love is beautiful to be honest but people fall out of love. A happy relationship requires efforts of both the persons else things get out wrong and create problems.
Oh there's something I wanted to say and you probably experienced this too, there are many people who like someone so much and have some really hard feelings for them but they are too insecure or maybe shy to say that to the other person. They never get to reveal their feelings to them in fear and things never progress. I've heard a lot of stories on this and this thing I have mentioned is the reason I have been single for my entire life (Talking about real life relationships). Yea I did long distance relationship things but that's something I don't wanna count. I have researched about this topic and many people suggest that if you really have feelings for someone, go tell them about it. Maybe it can progress, maybe the other person has some mutual connection too and it can get to the next level or maybe just you will get rejected but at least you tried, at least you've got an answer instead of nothing but keeping them as a crush and them not knowing about it. Maybe I am saying this thing wrong lmao but never mind. There are cases when both the person has crush on each other or they love each other and they even know about it but no one dares to tell each other about it and they don't even get to get in a relationship. This one is really sad I know. We human beings are amazing and I am so lucky to be one hehe. I mean just think that we can think about so many things, we can experience so many things and we can feel so many things. Now I am really kind of loving to write blog posts, expressing my thoughts in words. It's not on my head all the time anymore but reaching out to you guys (in the future ofcourse).
Currently, I do have a crush on a girl and she is in my college class. Yesterday I had some quite good moments with her on Valentines Day beer, whiskey, vodka etc. party with other mates and well I like her but too stupid to tell her. She has a crush on someone else and wait wait yeah got some new things on my mind. There's this case too when your crush likes someone else and you like her. This one is quite painful or when your crush has a boyfriend/girlfriend and you can just let them be crush (mostly secretly). I don't know for how long I am gonna stay single but I have learned a lot about relationship from other people, books, movies, shows and the internet that I know I will act as a better partner. When I was in my school days I was like I will do relationships only when I will get in college as that will be my age to do such things and now it's Semester 2. I know like 4 girls who quite admitted that they like me but again I don't want to get into relationship but the simple reason behind it is that I don't have feelings for them and the people I fell for which are 2 in my July-February 2019 time. I think I am getting more into my personal life now. If it's really true that you fall in love only once in your life time then maybe, maybe I haven't been in true love yet. Some people are like the partner of your life or soulmate comes at the correct or right time of your life but is it really true? Is there any right time or you will have to make it out? How can you expect a plant to grow from a seed without giving it its required nutrients? I know I got knowledge but I lack real life experiences or skills. Love is truly a beautiful feeling. You feel so good seeing the person you like, hearing their voice or just interacting with them with a hi. A short conversation can make your day and make you smile. It can do a lot with you and it's all the game of feelings.
Lust is different, some people confuse love with lust but lust is mainly the physical attraction towards someone as I mentioned it before. I don't want to use some words on my blog because google may not like it. It's human nature though to have desires and to accomplish it. It's our society and especially Indian society which made it kind of a taboo but in modern day generation it's improving as we are advancing. I can go on this topic but I guess I should end it here. Blogging isn't really bad especially this one where I can write about anything haha.
Everyone has crushes in their lifetime and talking about me, I've had dozen of crushes in my 19 years of life. I will have to count them haha. Just some days ago I came across another term called infatuation which people say starts at starting of a relationship when the person are really attached to each other. I am not writing this to define these terms so I am not gonna go deep into definitions. What I think of love is that you can fall in love with anyone and anything and it's a roller coaster of different emotions and feelings. You get happy, you get sad, you get heartbreaks, you make memories, you just go through a lot of things. Talking about lust, that's something different and is used when you are attached to someone's physical body and have physical desires. A boy like me, oh boy I have a lot of lust inside me lol but I've had multiple crushes in my lifetime, some lasted for days and some for months. I feel I have some kind of feeling for girls that I had crush on 4-5 years ago and still feel them. I don't really know how all these feeling things really work but this is just amazing. Sometimes it really blows my mind on how our body and mind reacts to such feelings. You feel like you love someone or have crush on someone, you think about them all the time and create romantic conversations and incidents inside your head. You smile inside yourself thinking about your own love fantasies for that person, even the most minor things related to them amazes you and makes you love them more but jealousy also comes with it and you also get sad and angry when something happens that you don't like with that person like when someone comes in the way.
Love is beautiful to be honest but people fall out of love. A happy relationship requires efforts of both the persons else things get out wrong and create problems.
Oh there's something I wanted to say and you probably experienced this too, there are many people who like someone so much and have some really hard feelings for them but they are too insecure or maybe shy to say that to the other person. They never get to reveal their feelings to them in fear and things never progress. I've heard a lot of stories on this and this thing I have mentioned is the reason I have been single for my entire life (Talking about real life relationships). Yea I did long distance relationship things but that's something I don't wanna count. I have researched about this topic and many people suggest that if you really have feelings for someone, go tell them about it. Maybe it can progress, maybe the other person has some mutual connection too and it can get to the next level or maybe just you will get rejected but at least you tried, at least you've got an answer instead of nothing but keeping them as a crush and them not knowing about it. Maybe I am saying this thing wrong lmao but never mind. There are cases when both the person has crush on each other or they love each other and they even know about it but no one dares to tell each other about it and they don't even get to get in a relationship. This one is really sad I know. We human beings are amazing and I am so lucky to be one hehe. I mean just think that we can think about so many things, we can experience so many things and we can feel so many things. Now I am really kind of loving to write blog posts, expressing my thoughts in words. It's not on my head all the time anymore but reaching out to you guys (in the future ofcourse).
Currently, I do have a crush on a girl and she is in my college class. Yesterday I had some quite good moments with her on Valentines Day beer, whiskey, vodka etc. party with other mates and well I like her but too stupid to tell her. She has a crush on someone else and wait wait yeah got some new things on my mind. There's this case too when your crush likes someone else and you like her. This one is quite painful or when your crush has a boyfriend/girlfriend and you can just let them be crush (mostly secretly). I don't know for how long I am gonna stay single but I have learned a lot about relationship from other people, books, movies, shows and the internet that I know I will act as a better partner. When I was in my school days I was like I will do relationships only when I will get in college as that will be my age to do such things and now it's Semester 2. I know like 4 girls who quite admitted that they like me but again I don't want to get into relationship but the simple reason behind it is that I don't have feelings for them and the people I fell for which are 2 in my July-February 2019 time. I think I am getting more into my personal life now. If it's really true that you fall in love only once in your life time then maybe, maybe I haven't been in true love yet. Some people are like the partner of your life or soulmate comes at the correct or right time of your life but is it really true? Is there any right time or you will have to make it out? How can you expect a plant to grow from a seed without giving it its required nutrients? I know I got knowledge but I lack real life experiences or skills. Love is truly a beautiful feeling. You feel so good seeing the person you like, hearing their voice or just interacting with them with a hi. A short conversation can make your day and make you smile. It can do a lot with you and it's all the game of feelings.
Lust is different, some people confuse love with lust but lust is mainly the physical attraction towards someone as I mentioned it before. I don't want to use some words on my blog because google may not like it. It's human nature though to have desires and to accomplish it. It's our society and especially Indian society which made it kind of a taboo but in modern day generation it's improving as we are advancing. I can go on this topic but I guess I should end it here. Blogging isn't really bad especially this one where I can write about anything haha.
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